We can’t change people and it’s actually our compulsion TO change people that needs to be addressed. Until we do that, we’ll continue to attract the same type of people until we actually learn the lesson. If we date from our wounds, we will typically seek out what’s familiar to our childhood dynamic. Our parents showed us the blueprint for our adult relationships and shaped us in every way, including our insecurities and self-worth. Confront that stuff, reframe it, and you’ll change your dating